2: Forming vs Fixing Part 1

Embracing Formation Over Fixing: Transforming Relationships and Self In this episode of the Joy Restored podcast, Chariti shares her transformative journey from trying to 'fix' herself and her relationships to embracing a mindset of 'formation'. She discusses how a major realization during an argument with her husband changed her perspective on personal and relational growth. Chariti recounts the impact of her son's learning struggles and her initial impulse to fix him, eventually realizing the need to focus on formation instead. The episode underscores the difference between exhausting fixing efforts and the peace that comes from allowing formation through presence with God. She introduces practical steps to shift from fixing to formation, encouraging listeners to practice presence and self-awareness. Additionally, she invites listeners to take the free Marriage Resilience Assessment available at joyrestore.com. 00:00 Introduction: The Endless Cycle of Fixing 00:37 A New Perspective: What If Nothing Is Broken? 03:27 The Turning Point: Realizing the Impact on My Son 05:35 Formation vs. Fixing: A Paradigm Shift 09:13 Practical Steps: Embracing Formation in Daily Life 15:15 Conclusion: The Journey Ahead