Both. Becoming is designed for couples who want to heal, grow, strengthen, or prepare. Whether you’re thriving or struggling—this journey meets you where you are.

Absolutely. Becoming forms the emotional and spiritual foundation most couples don’t get before they say “I do.” Pre-married couples love it.

No. Becoming isn't therapy—it's a coaching-based growth journey with monthly live support. It's built on emotional intelligence, neuroscience, and practical tools. You'll get guidance from us through monthly Coach's Corner sessions and community support, but you work through the material as a couple on your own time.

It’s faith-informed but not religious or preachy. We blend neuroscience, emotional intelligence, and spiritual formation in a way that’s accessible to everyone.

Most couples spend 4-6 hours per month on the core curriculum—including the teaching video, practices, and connection exercises. Plus one (optional) 60-minute Coach's Corner session (live or recorded). It's designed to fit into real life, not overwhelm it.

Once a month, we gather live for 60 minutes. One or both coaches teach one core relationship principle (15-20 min), we reflect on powerful questions together (10 min), then open it up for Q&A where you can ask questions from wherever you are in the journey (30-35 min). Every call is recorded if you can't attend live.

Not in this journey. Each month intentionally builds on the one before it—like stepping stones. You’ll learn foundations first, then add skills, tools, and rhythms in a sequence that makes growth feel natural and sustainable.
Skipping ahead would shortcut the deeper transformation we’re building together.

Not at all. Every couple has different emotional styles—one may be more expressive, the other more reserved—and this journey is designed with that in mind. In fact, you’ll learn why you each process differently and how to work with those differences, not against them.

Some months focus on gentle reflection, and others are very practical and skill-based (communication tools, conflict repair, wiring assessments, fun, intimacy, etc.). There’s no pressure to share more than you’re comfortable with.

Each month gives you simple, doable practices that help both partners grow at a pace that feels safe, steady, and realistic.